Childfree Book Club

Looking for books about childfreedom? We know a few.

Americashire: A Field Guide to a Marriage by Jennifer Richardson

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When an American woman and her British husband decide to buy a two-hundred-year-old cottage in the heart of the Cotswolds, they’re hoping for an escape from their London lives. Instead, their decision about whether or not to have a child plays out against a backdrop of village fêtes, rural rambles, and a cast of eccentrics clad in corduroy and tweed.  

Americashire: A Field Guide to a Marriage begins with the simultaneous purchase of a Cotswold cottage and Richardson’s ill-advised decision to tell her grandchild-hungry parents that she is going to try to have a baby. As she transitions from urban to rural life, she is forced to confront both her ambivalence about the idea of motherhood and the reality of living with a spouse who sees the world as a glass half-full. Part memoir, part travelogue – and including field guides to narrative-related Cotswold walks – Americashire is a candid, humorous tale of marriage, illness, and big life decisions.

The Baby Matrix: Why Freeing Our Minds From Outmoded Thinking About Parenthood & Reproduction Will Create A Better World by Laura Carroll

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“In the movie The Matrix, the character Morpheus offers two pills to Neo—if he takes the blue pill, he will go on with life as he has before, believing what he has always believed. If he takes the red pill, he will find out what the “matrix” really is, and many of his earlier beliefs will be shattered. When it comes to taking a hard look at a specific set of beliefs about parenthood and reproduction that has driven our society for generations, The Baby Matrix is the red pill.

The Baby Matrix looks at long-held beliefs about parenthood and reproduction, and unravels why we believe what we believe. It lays out:We commonly think our desire to have children boils down to our biological wiring, but author Laura Carroll says it’s much more than that. Unlike other books on parenthood, The Baby Matrix: Why Freeing Our Minds From Outmoded Thinking About Parenthood & Reproduction Will Create a Better World takes a serious look at powerful social and cultural influences that drive the desire for the parenthood experience, and lays out why we need to be very aware of these influences to make the most informed decisions about parenthood.

-the historical origins of beliefs about parenthood and reproduction
-why many of these beliefs no longer work for society or were never true in the first place
-why we continue to believe them anyway
-the prices society pays as a result

The Baby Matrix shows us how we got here, brings to light what is true, which includes knowing about the powerful influence of “pronatalism,” and explains why society can no longer afford to leave pronatalism unquestioned.

“This is not a book about convincing people not to have children,” says Carroll. “I want people to be very aware of the long-held social and cultural pressures, and be able to free themselves from those pressures when making parenthood choices. This will result in more people making the best decisions for themselves, will foster a society in which those who are best suited to become parents are the ones who have children and one that knows what it means to bring a child into the world today.”

This book will make you examine your own intentions and beliefs, will rile you, and might just change your mind. Whether you are already a parent, want to become a parent, are still making up your mind, or know you don’t want children, you’ll never think about parenthood in the same way.

The Baby Matrix is a must-read for anyone interested in psychology, sociology, anthropology, parenting issues, environmentalism, and social justice. But most of all, it’s for anyone, parent or not, who reveres the truth and wants the best for themselves, their families, and our world.”

Baby Not on Board: A Celebration of Life without Kids by Jennifer Shawne

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For anyone who’s wondered, “Why have kids when I could have fun instead?” here’s a warm and hilarious welcome to the wonderful world of unparenting! The childfree life is growing in popularity, and finally here is a book that celebrates the wisdom and wonder of that choice. For those who cherish their white shag carpet and glass coffee table, this highly interactive bookwith quizzes, sidebars, and handy checklistsoffers a range of helpful, unparenting information including ways to throw oneself an unbaby shower and strategies for coping with dreaded OPCs (other people’s children). Baby Not on Boardreminds us all that having a baby is great, but NOT having a baby is really, really great.

Families of Two: Interviews with Happily Married Couples Without Children by Choice by Laura Carroll

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Families of Two: Interviews with Happily Married Couples Without Children by Choice, takes us into the lives of the growing number of couples who are choosing not to have children, and dispels the myths commonly associated with this choice. Families of Two provides insight for couples who are deciding whether to have children, and to friends and family of couples who have chosen or may choose not to have children. It celebrates the many people who are living lives that do not include parenthood, and the many ways to live happily ever after.

Kidfree & Lovin’ It! – Whether by Choice, Chance or Circumstance: The complete guide to living as a non-parent (Volume 1) by Kaye D. Walters

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Twice as many people today are not having children today compared to 30 years ago. In an unprecedented survey, Kaye Walters polled 3,800 non-parents from 55 countries to find out why—in their words—they chose not to parent, and the issues they face for not doing so. 

“Kidfree & Lovin’ It!” is the complete guide to living as a non-parent in a kid-centric world. The book speaks to all types of non-parents—single or coupled, male or female—whether “childfree by choice,” “kidfree by circumstance,” “childless” or “on the fence.”

Here’s a sampling of what’s inside:
• Hundreds of quotes about kids, parenting and non-parenting from the “childfree” and “childed.”
• A look at the reasons why people have kids, and a thorough examination of why others don’t.
• The “Kidfree Bingo” card containing common cliché comments used to pressure you into procreating.
• A list of “creative comebacks” to use when you get blindsided by one of the “bingos” mentioned above.
• An exclusive list of over 260 notable non-parents from past to present—including some of their thoughts on the subject.
• Dozens of resources for non-parents worldwide, including groups, websites, books and a pithy glossary of terms.

No Children, No Guilt by Sylvia D. Lucas

no children no guilt

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“Oh, don’t worry,” they say when you tell them you don’t want children. “You’ll change your mind.” (Pat on knee.) What does it mean to be ‘sure’ you don’t want children? Aren’t you supposed to want them? What if the person you’re in love with wants them? And why do you feel so guilty for not wanting them? From the shocking abuse of her childhood doll to the demise of two marriages, Sylvia shares her vibrant humor and offers insight into what it really means to be child-free – without the guilt. All it takes is – Accepting your disinclination toward motherhood – Recognizing you WILL be looked at funny – Understanding that you will, in some ways, be a perpetual child (but who’s complaining?) – Being prepared for people to think they know you better than you know yourself – Knowing it could mean losing the person you love – Finding a partner who doesn’t want children – and never will (…and a little bit more)

Childfree Voices’ Review

Planned UnParenthood Creating a Life Without Procreating by William (Dann) Alexander 

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Planned UnParenthood is a refreshing look at life without having children. It gives a voice to those without children who may be afraid to say what they really want to say. It gives validity and understanding to those who are always explaining why they have made this lifestyle choice. It also gives parents some insight and thought into the attitudes they may have towards their friends and family who live life as non-parents. It takes a hard look at the reality of a society that rewards parents automatically, while sometimes by default punishing those without children. This book will explain why creating life does not necessarily have to be the main purpose of living. It affirms that not having children is in fact an option, and is a choice worthy of respect.”


Do you know of a childfree book we failed to mention? Have we gotten the information on one of the books listed wrong? Have you read one of these books and have something to say about it? Let us know in the comments!

18 Responses to Childfree Book Club

  1. Hi, would love it if you would post my memoir, Americashire, about my decision not to have kids. Amazon links is here for more info

    • Will do! Do you have your own site and is this memoir available by any other means besides Amazon?

    • It’s up!

  2. KidfreeKaye says:

    You need my book on your list: Kidfree & Lovin’ It! – Whether by Choice, Chance or Circumstance.
    You can check out the reviews on Amazon:

    • I’ll do that soon! Do you have your own site and is this book available by any other means besides Amazon?

    • Thanks! It’s up now.

      • kidfree says:

        Thanks! “Nook” should be changed to “Kindle”, and you could add Barnes & Noble:
        I will spread the word about your useful site!

        • Whoops. Looks like I messed up. Thanks for catching that!

  3. kidfree says:

    Yes, my site is:
    My facebook groups are:

    And my book is available on Barnes & Noble, Kindle, and most online booksellers.

  4. kidfree says:

    Not a problem! Thanks for your new site…

  5. Kidfree and Lovin' This Post says:

    I just bought the ebooks of Baby Not On Board and Kidfree and Lovin’ It. Thanks very much for this post!

    • Hey, I’m glad you like this post. I’m planning on expanding it more as I find the time as I know there must be at least a few more great childfree books worth adding.

      And hey, thanks for buying those books! I’m sure the authors are very happy.

      If you want to, once you’ve finished those books, you can come back with a comment telling us all what you thought of them. We would love to hear from you.

      • J.O. Raber says:

        Hello Childfree Voices;
        Thank you for this website. I wish to bring to your attention my new book: Famous – But No Children just published by Algora Publishers:
        J.O. Raber

        • Thanks. I’ll check it out.

  6. L says:

    I recently found “Complete Without Kids” in my local library. It was a pretty good read.


  7. I have written a novel that promotes the pro-choice and childfree movements. The young couple in the novel wanted to be childfree, but were unable because their pregnancy occurred before abortion was legal in the U.S.

    Unplanned Choices, a coming-of-age romantic historical drama, is set in the late 1960s and early 1970s in New York City and Long Island during the turbulent period of the Vietnam War, the Civil Rights struggle, the sexual revolution, the women’s movement, and the struggle for legalizing abortion.

    The novel is the story of Steve Lynch and his first love, Anna Marino. Both Anna and Steve are raised in the Roman Catholic faith and struggle with the church’s prohibition of sexual activity and their growing sexual drives. The both meet in college after abandoning the church’s restrictions. Anna became pregnant and dies during an abortion, before abortion on demand became legal in New York. The novel describes the impact of the abortion on Steve, the abortionist, Anna’s family and friends, and one NYPD investigator who committed murder.

    If Anna could have legally had an abortion, she would not have died and the impact on the other characters in the novel would not have been as tragic.

    Situations similar to that portrayed in Unplanned Choices could be replicated hundreds of thousands of times in the future couples who wanted to be childfree were not able to if abortion become illegal or is severely restricted in the United States.

    Information about Unplanned Choices can be found at my website:

    Unplanned Choices is available at

    • Interesting! Thanks for sharing that.

  8. kidfreekaye says:

    Congrats on you new book! Sounds great, as there can never be too many books on childfreedom…

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